Tips on First Look
Looking into your significant other's eyes and seeing them in their wedding attire for the first time is one of life's most magical moments. It can be easy to forget, though, that this moment is not just about you! Yes, it will be a special moment for both of you, but it's also important to consider what your partner might need in order to feel comfortable with this new development in your relationship. Here are a few tips from professional wedding photographers on how to prepare for a first look:
Determine a setting that is special or meaningful to you.
The first thing you need to consider is where you would like the moment to take place. For example, if you have a special location in mind, it's important to think about whether or not that particular location will be available at the time of year when your wedding will be taking place (for instance, some parks may not allow wedding photos during certain times of the year due to leaf change or bird nesting). You also want to consider what conditions are going on outside at that time of year. Will any storms be coming through? Is it too cold for outdoor photos? The possibilities are endless, but one thing remains constant: make sure that whatever setting you choose isn't going to ruin your special moment with rain and wind!
Think about how much time will be needed for the first look.
The first look is a special moment in the life of a bride and groom, but it's important to remember that it will take time. It can sometimes be difficult to plan for this as a couple, so here are some tips for making sure you have enough time available:
Time your location. If you're taking pictures at an outdoor location and want them to be perfect, make sure that the weather cooperates with your schedule! Also, think about how far away from the ceremony venue your first look spot is—you don't want to spend too much time traveling back and forth between locations.
Communicate with photographers/videographers. Make sure they know what kind of timeline they should expect so they can plan accordingly (for example, if you're doing something very elaborate like jumping over waterfalls or walking through an active volcano).
Prepare yourself emotionally.
Preparation is key to a successful first look. To do this, you'll need to prepare yourself emotionally, mentally, and practically.
Think about what you will say to each other when the moment comes. If there are words you want to hear back from your partner, prepare them in advance so that they're ready when the time comes.
Think about how it will feel when you see each other for the first time before your wedding day—it's easy for stress about photo shoots and family members getting in the way of this special moment to overshadow its importance! If possible, try practicing what will happen beforehand with friends or family members who know you well enough not to be taken aback by anything unexpected happening during practice; then think about how those feelings will translate into real life on camera at your wedding day's first look session.
Choose an outfit that feels right for you.
When it comes to selecting an outfit for your first look, there are a few things you should keep in mind:
Choose something that makes you feel comfortable.
Choose something that makes you feel beautiful.
Choose something that makes you feel like yourself.
Consider the lighting and plan accordingly.
Consider the time of day. Outdoor weddings are beautiful, but you don't want to be squinting at your significant other and trying to get a good shot with harsh sunlight beating down on you.
Consider the weather. If there's rain in the forecast, don't even bother planning for an outdoor ceremony—just reschedule for another day! It definitely won't be romantic and it most likely won't turn out well if it rains mid-ceremony anyway (you'll start getting wet). And if it's sunny? Make sure that there is plenty of shade available so that no one has to worry about sweating through their dress or suit while posing for pictures.
Consider the location of your shoot—if possible, choose somewhere where there will be adequate lighting conditions (e.g., daylight). You really don't want either one of you squinting in every single photo after all this time spent just preparing for this moment!
Find a good photographer and set up the plan beforehand.
When you choose the photographer, make sure that they understand your vision and that you set up the plan beforehand so you can get the best photos. Make sure that the photographer understands your schedule—you don’t want to be running around all day for pictures. Make sure cameras are pointing at both of you (and not just one person).
Keep this moment strictly between you and your partner.
This is a moment between you and your partner. It's not about anyone else. It's the first time the two of you are seeing each other, and it should be kept between just the two of you. Your family and friends can share in your excitement later on, but please keep this special moment just for the two of you!
Are you ready for your First Look?
First impressions are a big deal, and your wedding day's first look is no exception. With the right preparation and planning, you'll be able to go into your wedding day feeling confident, prepared, and happy—and that's what really matters!